If you are in the season of singleness right now, I want to remind you that it doesn’t make you a lesser person. There is nothing wrong to desire and ask God for a godly relationship, but being single while glorifying God is not wrong either. You are precious. You were bought, not by mere gold or silver that loses its value, but by the blood of Christ. You are not alone, for your Creator, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, will be your husband.
What is a husband to you? Is he supposed to be your protector? Your provider? Your fortress? All of these are the Lord. Married or not married, all of these attributes will be faithfully shown by God to you. Because He is committed. Because you are His. It is Him who will complete you. Do not focus on who you do not have right now. Instead, start meditating on the only one who can fill the deepest longings of your heart, JESUS.
God did not create the season of singleness for you to be lonely. He created this so you can fully enjoy His love, His presence. He created this so He can establish a deep relationship with you without anyone getting in the way. This season, my friend, is matchless! This season is incomparable! This season is where God can show you that you may long for anyone, but only He completely satisfies. This season is where God can show you that there’s a hole in your heart that only He can fill up. This season is where He will teach you to trust in His will, to trust in His timing.
Singleness is a time to celebrate! It is a time to enjoy life as a single woman loving Christ. Arise from your situation today and let the love of the Savior saturate you. Use your time and energy in enjoying God’s presence and deepening your relationship with Him. He is waiting and longing to spend time with you.
Your sister in Christ,
Anne Marie Paguia